THE LIMIT OF WRATH

 And Moses heard this, Aaron was accepted in his own eyes.

Leviticus 10:20
The heart of the man who fears the Lord, for it is most holy, is angry with what is wrong. However, while the revolt that fills our interior, we must remember that often also do not like the others (Matthew 7.3-5, Luke 6.41,42). Observing that declares the Holy Word, we can help those who slips in faith to recover. What we must not let the enemy is to become agents of his will, since we are allowed to meet only the divine plans.
We know that no one is perfect, but all must seek perfection (Matt. 5.48). Therefore, we must be zealous with divine matters, otherwise, we will be responsible for the scandals that are sure to come (Mt 18.7). Moreover, we can not be the cause of any stumbling weak in faith. So, determined to catch someone in error, not to exceed watch in anger and not be found guilty for what may happen to the offender (Eph 4.26).
Holiness is a virtue that everyone should seek, and to achieve it, we must strive and never use the wide gate (Mt 7.13). Thus, keeping in mind that we should only enter and exit through the narrow gate - the divine Word - before issuing any judgment, stating if things are as they seem. It's never good to make a decision without reflecting on what God says about it, because who speaks in accordance with the divine oracles will never equivocate.
However, in cases of difficult resolution, you must listen carefully to all the explanations, because not always, the truth is what it seems. We must also be careful not to be intransigent with people, wroth us to point to act as a judge. Remember that if something bad happen to us, certainly, we want to treat us with kindness by being reprimanded.
In fact, the only ones capable of deciding a case justly are conferring with the Word of God what they hear, but not be too careful. To determine whether the justifications of an error are plausible, make sure they satisfy your heart hurt. So, feel that the truth has not been fully told, do not rush to say that the person has obtained forgiveness. That's because she can convince herself that it was easy to be forgiven, continuing the lie that will lead her to destruction.
The lie that show that they are not repentant and who just may have felt a great remorse. However, the erring and truly repent are forgiven and never forget the favor granted. Also, when someone wants forgiveness, confesses everything, regardless of the price to be paid, for what most want is to get rid of the error. Do not forget that on the Day of Judgment, all error will be revealed, but there will be no forgiveness (2 Peter 2:1-4). Therefore, repent now and get rid of that anger, perhaps, dwells in you.
In Christ, with love